How to Talk Your Parents into Anything

"But please, mom? PLEASE, MOM!?" By teenager-dom, you should know that this is not the best route to take when trying to get what you want. You're on your way to adulthood, and if you want them to see you that way, you can't switch into whine mode. Need a get-your-way road map? Follow these tips, and you'll have your big night out in your mom's car in no time.

Prove It

Setting yourself up with a bargaining chip is key. If you're looking for a later curfew, start by coming home on time for your current one. Just think of the power! "Mom, I always come home on time. I just want this one late night."

Know Your Target

Avoid angry parents like the plague. If your brother has crashed another car, it's not the time to ask for a couple of bucks for the movies. If you approach a much calmer dad, you'll have a better chance of scoring a ticket to "Nick & Norah's Infinite Playlist."

Do Your Homework

Treat your parental request like an ultra-difficult school project: Do some research first. It looks a lot better -- and more responsible -- if you present your parents with all the info they'll need up front. Asking to go on a weekend trip? Give them info about the hotel you'd be staying in and write up an itinerary, complete with emergency phone numbers (like those of your trip buddies). They'll know you considered them when making your plans and they'll trust your judgment much more.

Play the Game of Give and Take

The word "threaten" should not enter into your parental plan -- ever. Don't swear you'll never speak to them again if they don't give you a ride to the mall. Bargain instead, like this: "Mom, if you pick me up from the mall, I'll go to the grocery store with you afterward and help you carry things." See how easy that was? That's what we like to call "mutually beneficial."
You tell us: What are your tips and tricks for talking you parents into things?